5 Ways To Avoid Your Own Valentine’s Day Massacre

Excellent advice for this holiday. My partner and I will celebrate our 14th anniversary on Valentine’s Day! This year has been rough and the other day I said I was sorry I wasn’t able to get him anything for our anniversary. He just stated that he did not need me to buy him anything because I gave his gift this year by staying clean and sober which I will celebrate my 1 year on Thursday 2/12/2015.

john pavlovitz

Ahhhhh… Do you smell that?

It’s that magical time of year again; when massive, heart-shaped boxes of overpriced chocolates line the entry way to every supermarket, drug store and gas station; when renegade roadside stands of roses shoot up like springtime driveway crabgrass; when restaurants, jewelers, and car dealers all leap wildly from their respective corners, breathlessly salivating in anticipation of the oncoming emotional Armageddon:

Valentine’s Day.

Chances are, a good deal of you reading this will soon find yourself somewhere along the continuum of those whose hearts and wallets will be hijacked by Hallmark; crushed beneath the weight of candy-coated affection and store-bought closeness.

As a service, I’d like to offer a few tips to help you retain some sanity and dignity, as this most holy day of relational obligation approaches. 

Whether you’re attached, estranged, alone, (or some odd combination of the three), here’s how you might avoid disaster this week:

1) Don’t overcompensate, financially or emotionally.

If you’re…

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