Yes, Homosexuality Absolutely is A Choice

As always John – you hit the nail right on the head! My partner Cruz and I have been together a little over 14 years and our relationship is based solely on love, respect, and the desire for both of us to be successful at whatever we do. He has seen the best of me and he has survived the worst of me in the throes of alcoholism and addiction to cocaine and yet he is still by my side!! I will also tell you that as with heterosexual marriages sex becomes the least important item in our marriage!! JUST SAYING!! Thanks for the great post as always!!

john pavlovitz


Confession time.

To all of my Christian brothers and sisters who insist that homosexuality is a choice, I need to break down and finally admit something: I agree with you.

I believe that it absolutely is a choice too, only not in the way that you may have meant.

But I guess that’s largely the crux of the problem we have here. I think you use your terms too loosely without really thinking them through. When you say quite matter-of-factly that homosexualityis a choice, I’m not sure you really know in that moment, just what you mean by “homosexuality”.

Far too often Christian, when you make the statement that being gay is a sin, what you’re really doing without realizing it is reducing all LGBT people down to a sex act; as if that alone defines sexuality.

You’re denying any emotional component in their lives; any capacity to feel real love or show genuine affection toward someone…

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